Todays friends or as they call themselves have no or little loyalty to anyone besides themselves. Im not saying we dont have friends and our friends are bad people. Life has reached an outcome where every person selects their friends by benefits we recieve from them. Im sure we all have friends in different fields of profession. Are these our friends or professional connections? Are we befriended by our professions?
If you earn a larger salary to that of your friends, they seem to swarm for your attention. I have always chosen my friends very selectively, though through the years iv seen, more and more, that little phrase "when days are dark friends are few" it more of a literal philosophy than we may realise. We have become so engrossed in our friendships we never see through the pretty exterior. Facets of life seem to loose us friends.
Is there friends out there that would sacrifice for us. Who would drop anything to be with us? Make extensive efforts, Keep in touch, and show love. Where has our time for friendship gone? Even I will admit Im not the perfect friend.
So...Friends where art though Friends?
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A friend of mines little sister fell pregnant from her boyfriend at a age that I would consider too young, so I sent her an e-mail with some questions I hoped would help her consider her options, I decided to post this list incase anyone else was in the same situation or knew of someone. I hope its insightfull. Remember alot of the question pertain to South African Laws aswell as the situation she is in so edit as need be.
There are choices in life, ARE YOU READY?
Have you reached your life and personal goals?
Do you have a licence or plans of getting it soon? (This is a necessity, as you never know the situation, people might not always be around to help)
Do you have your own car for independence?
Do you have a permanent job and it’s perks, for freedom?
Have you got your own house for security?
Do you have the tools to forecast and plan your future?
Are you ready and able to deal with the social stigma associated with this predicament? (And not turning a blind eye to it, as that shows immaturity)
You do realise as you are not permanent staff, you...
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